The holiday season is just around the corner, fingers crossed for long sunny days and much relaxing! For those who have or who are struggling with an eating difficulty, the many functions and shared meals that come with the holiday season can feel a little stressful.
Here are some helpful suggestions on how to keep stress and worry to a minimum over the holiday period:
- Gently ease into the holiday season by focusing on activities that don’t involve food, such as putting up decorations, or sending e-cards.
- Plan some alternative activities that you can do when you are feeling stressed or over-whelmed, e.g. taking the dog out for a walk, take a drive somewhere or call a friend.
- Remember that all food is neutral – there are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ foods.
- Check in with your body before and while you are eating—Am I feeling hungry? Am I feeling full?
- Stay away from any kind of good food/bad food/diet thinking or conversation.
- If it makes you feel better, organize your own food to take to a function or a meal, and let the host know that you will be doing this, in advance.
- If you are hosting a meal, allow people to bring food that they feel OK eating, if they wish to.
- If things don’t go as planned, remember that one meal will not make a significant difference to your body.
- Try to shift the focus away from food and counting calories, to celebrating, and spending time with loved ones.
- Work out your own support system in advance — identify close friends and/or family members that you can reach out to for support, if and when you need it. Or ask a friend if you can text her/him to check in, if you feel you need to.
- Take care of yourself—if this means not going to a function, (or going to a function), then do what feels right for you at the time.
- Surround yourself with people who have healthy relationships with their bodies, and who do not focus on food and weight. Or when attending gatherings, bring a trusted family member or friend along with you, if you can.

Have a safe and happy holiday from the team at EDEN!